My Caste
An article I wrote for our family journal "Mayan" some time back.
Recently, I had been to England to set up a project for Glaxo. After we had successfully finished our project, two colleagues (one Indian and one American), our boss (a Canadian) and me went to have dinner at an Indian restaurant. The restaurant was called Bombay Brasserie. The Taj Group of India runs it.
While we were eating, my professor asked my Indian colleague and myself about untouchability in India, whether it was still followed very strictly and so forth.
I was able to answer that it wasn’t followed much in today’s modern times. When I said this, my boss and my American colleague jointly started talking about how stupid they thought it was. I jokingly told them that if it was still followed, I would not be able to come within a certain distance of my Indian colleague (who is a Brahmin), let alone have dinner with him. We all had a good laugh over this, but when I was alone in my hotel room, I started thinking of how it must have been for our ancestors…
Their profession was Toddy-Tapping (the extraction of liquor from the Toddy Palm); they worked almost the whole day in the heat of Southern Tamil Nadu. They owned hardly any land and worked for the higher caste people who refused to even touch coins that had been touched by Nadars. In fact, they would ask Nadars to put the coins into water before they would touch it. They were forced to live outside the village and did not have access to the public well.
However, when Caldwell, the famous missionary came to Tinnevelly, he remarked that the most prominent feature he observed among the Shanars was their “downright insolence”! In fact, our “timiru” got us into a lot of trouble with other castes and that was why the British forced us to pay a “Timiru Vari”!
Some of the key factors that helped in the transformation of the Nadars from one of the lowest castes to the leading caste in Tamil Nadu are a refusal to accept a submissive role, hard work, education, very strong family and caste unity.
I believe that it is a tragedy that the younger generation is being brought up, largely ignorant of the glorious (and inglorious!) parts of Nadar History. The greatness of our caste to me is not that we started a bank, built a thousand schools and colleges, that we run the most successful businesses and that we are successful politicians, lawyers, administrators, doctors, engineers and housewives. It is that we have been able to rise up from the suppression of the past!
So today, when you walk into any commercial establishment, confident that you will be served, when you walk into a temple, confident that you will be welcomed, when you visit a doctor, confident that you will be treated regardless of the doctors caste, REMEMBER, it wasn’t always that way.
The past might seem to be very far away and even unreal, but we always need to be reminded of it, in case we forget about the importance of what made us what we are today – Hard work, education, family and caste unity.
Read more about the Nadars here ...
I will write more about Nadars when I can do so dispassionately ;-)
16 Comments:
Hai,
Gud to know nice things abt any community.. "Dispassionate???" You really mean tht..? ;) Bytheway blog abt BADTIMES was a gud one...
Have a nice day,
Ponnarasi Kothandaraman
My ancestors were weavers...
I used to think that casteism exists only in text book until my father who is a doctor, told me about his experiences, he had to face many hardships and ill- treatment in medical college...
I agree that casteism does not have that strong a foothold as it did a few decades back. But it does exist, especially in villages. Riots/Killings etc..based on caste differences are not uncommon. Thankfully,the present generation realizes that caste- system does not make much sense but the older generation i.e. my parents/grand parents still believe in it. The caste system also has a lot of influence when it comes to marriages.Most of the parents would want their kids to marry in their caste. But looking at the trend, I am fairly confident that 4-5 generations later...casteism would infact only exists in history books..:)
- A
Ponnarasi, I agree that its extremely difficult to be dispassionate about one's own caste - However, I am scared I will create a "jaathi kalavaram" or something :-)
Anon, the caste system is still very very deeply rooted in the villages and a relative of mine, who is the leader of my caste in a village has to carry an aruval around in the fear of being attacked by a "rival" caste.
Hey,
I do agree with your views here. But sadly caste-ism still rules most parts of India. And speaking of doctors, in some parts of North India, people will not let a obstetrician from a lower caste deliver a baby in their family. There are even people who would only accept a nanny for the kid if she's a brahmin.
True that many a unwated things happened because of castes. But I guess nowadays its not so, esp. with the educated - atleast there's no 'discrimination' as such. People prefer to marry within their castes, as each caste has its own culture and tradition and its easy for the partner to gel and get into the family affairs easily. But again, its a personal choice. One of my friend ended marrying a Muslim and another one married a Bengali.
So what's the big deal about inter-caste marraiges?! Anyway, I feel very reticent even to talk 'dispassionately' about castes - it shouldn't start off a conversation in the direction of the 'plights of lower castes under the upper castes'.
Hahahaha, Amam amam... Jaathi veri yenakkey vanthrum pola irukey :>
I was just kidding. Ur blog was above ground...
Well, it seems I forgot to write my full name with my comment. My name is Alpa.( signed off as '-A').
Btw,what is 'aruval'? I am from Ludhiana and just know a few words in Tamil; courtesy my Tamil friends.
- Alpa
Alpa, an aruval is a long curved knife with a very sharp edge that is primarily used in agriculture but somtimes to kill people :-(
http://www.ciks.org/images/aruval.jpg
Hello Mani,
It is nice to know that you know a lot about Nadars. Having grown up in modern India. I think it is still neccasary to understand the culture and tradtion of the community in which we are born. Especially I am really proud to born in this community, and everywhere I go I find Nadars are a admired and hated both for thier love for their people. I hope this will continue in the coming generations also.
Thanks Allwyn. I am a little bit pessimistic though, about future generations of Nadars, because our wealth and success in these years seems to be making us a little bit soft and less hardworking - Qualities which could lead to our downfall.
hi..
was amazed to read about the nadars.have got doubts which i hope u can help clear.are the nadars still considered the lower caste in india despite the fact that they are successful now?how low are the nadars compared to the kaunders?are they as low as the pariyans.
ps:sorry if i have offended anyone with these questions
Anon, Nadars are still classified as OBC's and most people would consider us of low caste. I am not sure that I care, and therefore there is no point in comparing our "status" with other castes.
hai guys
Hi,
I am a kerala Nadar christian living in Singapore. I was shocked to read that we were the "heirs of pandyan kingdom" from Wikipidea.I always thought low of our community.
Anyway, thank god of his blessings.My family has a lot of professionals, well educated ones. I hope Nadars will continue to emphasize on education for their future generations. This can always Keep them ahead with God's blessings. God bless
Things to ponder with:
Ever tried to ask the word "why" to yourself when people talk history. History has been, most times written only by the vanquished.
Have you ever thought why varma kalari was practiced only by nadars or why there were so many of the palm scripts that were destroyed when people converted to chrititanity? As for land not being owned by nadars --mm ever heard about Kayamoli Nadan?
I am in no way a casteist or whatever but in no way I would let others demean either.
Check this out
http://www.gemify.com/private/hrpt/index.html
--dharman
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